In our Sexual Harassment Awareness training seminars your employees will learn and apply the important skills of handling sexual harassment issues and complaints. This hands on seminar thoroughly addresses the elements of how to prevent unacceptable behavior. The seminar includes a detailed overview of what sexual harassment is, explains legal definitions, discusses sexual harassment prevention, and shows how to handle sexual harassment complaints and maintain a positive work environment.
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Sexual Harassment Training Seminar: What Is Sexual Harassment?
Legal definition of sexual harassment:
• unwelcome sexual advances, requests for sexual favors, and other verbal or physical conduct of a sexual nature constitute sexual harassment when: (1) submission to such conduct is made either explicitly or implicitly as a term or condition of employment (2) submission to or rejection of such conduct by an individual is used as the basis for employment decisions affecting such individual, or (3) such conduct has the purpose or effect of reasonably interfering with an individual's work performance or creating an intimidating, hostile, or offensive work environment.
Behavioral definition of sexual harassment:
To be considered sexual harassment, the behavior in question must be:
• sexual in nature or sex-based
• deliberate and/or repeated
• not welcomed, not asked for, not returned
There are many types of sexually harassing behavior, including:
• sexual teasing, jokes, remarks or gestures
• pressure for dates
• letters, phone calls, or material of a sexual nature
• sexually suggestive looks or gestures
• deliberate touching, brushes up against, leaning over, cornering, or pinching
• pressure for sexual favors
• actual or attempted rape or sexual assault
• mooning or flashing
• being the victim of sexual rumors
• having one's clothing pulled in a sexual way
• being shown, given, or left unwanted pictures or notes
• being forced to kiss someone
• having one's clothes pulled off or down
• being spied on while one dressed or showered
Why Victims Don’t Report
Some people do not believe that harassment is so common in today's society because many victims do not report the crime.
Some of the reasons why victims don't report sexual harassment include:
• they blame themselves
• they feel helpless, hopeless, and/or powerless
• they don't know how to report the harassment
• they think that their complaint won't be taken seriously
• they don't trust their own perceptions of what happened -- maybe they "misunderstood"
• they don't want to "rock the boat"
• they are afraid of the harasser or others (such as the harasser's friends or family
• they don't trust "the system"
• they don't think their school/workplace will support them if they report the harassment
• they don't think their friends will support them
• they feel embarrassed
• they don't think that reporting will make any difference; they don't believe that anything will be done about they harassment or the harasser
• they don't want to get the harasser into trouble
• they are prevented or blocked by sex role stereotyping
• they are prevented or blocked by victim behavior
Options for handling sexual harassment:
• do nothing. the situation probably won't get any better
• handle it on your own:
if you feel comfortable, speak up and tell the person that you don't like his or her behavior
describe the behavior you don't like
tell him/her what your feelings are
tell them why it bothers you
request what you do or don't want from the person. be specific for example,
when you tell dirty jokes i feel angry because i want to be taken seriously, so please don't tell dirty jokes around me.
don't try to deal with severe sexual harassment alone. ask for help.
you may want to ask a co-worker to come with you when you confront the person
tell the person the consequences if the behavior does not stop -- that is, you will go to your supervisor, the department head, etc.
write a letter to the sexual harasser
you might want to follow this format:
part 1: tell the facts of what happened, without evaluation. it should be as detailed and as precise as possible
part 2: describe how you feel about the events described in part 1, such as dismay, misery, distrust or revulsion. include your opinions or thoughts about what happened
part 3: write about what you want to have happen next. this part may be very short, since most of the time writers just want the behavior to stop. if the writer believes a remedy is necessary, it should be included here.
• consult a legal advocate or human resources to lodge a formal complaint
Victim response
The most common response to sexual harassment is for the victim to quit his/her job. When individuals stay, because they want or need their jobs, the typical reactions are (and they are often progressive):
• ignore it
hoping that it is a one-time only incident or that it will stop, people often initially ignore harassment.
• avoid it
employees experiencing harassment attempt to lessen the incidents by avoiding, as much as possible, the harasser. this starts with avoiding the harasser and continues on to avoiding any place that it may be possible for the harasser to be. this strategy has limited success in avoiding harassment and has a costly effect on the work performance and morale of the victim of harassment.
• play along
this coping strategy manifests itself by members of the targeted group attempting to become gender neutral -- for women, this means trying to become "one of the boys." the idea is to fit in and not be seen as an object for sexual attention but as just another worker.
• find a "protector" within the office hierarchy
for women, this may mean attaching herself to a coworker or someone with more power on the job in the belief that others will then see that she is unavailable. if the victim is married or in a relationship, she or he may flaunt their happily-coupled status as much as possible to show unavailability or lack of interest -- and for women, that they have possible protection outside the workplace.
• protest the harassment
this is rarely a first step for victims of harassment on the job, except in cases of physical or sexual assault. the protest is usually lodged with the person at work most likely to be sympathetic. if there is no such person, or if protesting to that person does not stop the harassment, the victim will often wait a prolonged period of time before pursuing the protest to a higher authority.
• quit
again, most people who are victimized by harassment who can, quit in the first place. unfortunately, when there is no in-house recourse to resolve the problem, the end result is the same.
Victim impact:
There are clusters of typical symptoms of victims of sexual harassment. Sexual harassment usually manifests itself with symptoms of high stress and anxiety.
• job performance symptoms:
job performance suffers as avoidance tactics take up time and attention that otherwise would be spent on work-related items. performance also suffers as the victim's feelings of increased helplessness and hopelessness about the situation impacts morale and productivity, and as a fear of failure and/or ridicule becomes part of the context of doing the job.
• depressive symptoms:
depressive symptoms appear both at home and in the workplace, including the victim withdrawing from normal activities, crying easier and/or more often, and experiencing fatigue.
• behavioral symptoms:
the victim will exhibit signs of high stress and anxiety, which may include "panic attacks." there will be signs of behavior changes, including changes in eating, sleeping, and social patterns. it is common for victims to experience sleep disturbances and nightmares.
• perceptive symptoms:
the victim will experience a change in viewpoint. the working world is now an unwelcome, hostile place to be. issues around trust and safety develop. current relationships suffer and future relationships may be more difficult to initiate. sexual harassment victims struggle with issues of shame that they could not stop the harassment, that they were powerless in a way perhaps never experienced before.
• long-term effects:
As noted above, the person who has experienced sexual harassment, especially prolonged and physical violence, will now view the working world differently. often the victim will avoid the type of job in which she or he experienced the harassment. there will most often be a lower level of trust, a lessening of social contacts in the workplace, a different attitude toward presenting her or himself to new employees and supervisors. the long-term effect includes problems with self-esteem in relation to people and to job responsibilities.
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